Your personality style and your partner’s style.

When answering the following questions, think about yourself and your partner in terms of how you act in your relationship. Be as honest as possible. Sometimes we see ourselves differently than our partner does, and vice versa. This quiz is designed to give you a quick overview of your personality style, your partner’s style, and where your strengths and challenges are in your relationship. There are no right or wrong answers, and this is designed to bring you closer together, not to give you areas to pick each other apart. Our suggestion is to focus on what IS working, and pick ONE thing that you might want to work on together to change.

Choose the number that best represents where you are on the spectrum (self) and where your partner is on the spectrum. 5 is high. If neither applies, leave the dot in the middle.